I don't know Wilson's work, but I am intrigued. Some of Wilson's observations focus on what I would call the collective aspect of character. For example: “At root,” Wilson wrote in 1985 in The Public Interest, “in almost every area of important concern, we are seeking to induce persons to act virtuously, whether as schoolchildren, applicants for public assistance, would-be lawbreakers or voters and public officials.”
How can we do this? As Brooks describes Wilson's writings, "When Wilson wrote about character and virtue, he didn’t mean anything
high flown or theocratic. It was just the basics, befitting a man who
grew up in the middle-class suburbs of Los Angeles in the 1940s: Behave
in a balanced way. Think about the long-term consequences of your
actions. Cooperate. Be decent."
Follow the dictates of Miss Manners.
Wilson, Brooks explained, did not believe that virtue was inculcated by prayer in schools. It
was habituated by practicing good manners, by being dependable, punctual
and responsible day by day. He emphasized that character
was formed in groups. “Order exists," Wilson wrote in 1993, "because a system of beliefs and sentiments
held by members of a society sets limits to what those members can do.”
Wilson's views in this respect remind me of the power of what I learned as a young naval officer was "customs, tradition and usage." Very powerful, indeed.
I think this is exactly what Hillary Clinton had in mind in her 1996 book, It Takes A Village. The book was, of course, roundly condemned by conservatives.
"No, it takes a family," the conservative choir rang out, led by Bob Dole and Rick Santorum.
One of the things I learned from tracing my own genealogy is that, for most of our history, it was impossible to tell where the family ended (parents, siblings, cousins, aunts, grandparents, grandchildren, etc.) and the village began. They were all part and parcel of the same social setting and were mutually reinforcing.
That reinforcement is a major reason families and children under stress were able to survive depression and war in the 30's and 40's.
But that's another story. I'll pick up the thread sometime soon.
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